Because we are all connected by God, the Universe, the Matrix, whatever you choose to call it, our most basic instinct next to self preservation is to procreate with another human being. We all know it is natural and desirable to have connections with each other and when we fall in love we explore the whole realm of sexuality. To be present in this love relationship is to be enjoying spirituality and sexuality. To be one with Source, we are being one with each other...that is the mystical miracle of intercourse of the sexes whether heterosexual or homosexual. The spiritual connection is the most heightened during the orgasm. So as you can see, this is not just a physical desire...it is a spiritual desire as well. It is the closest we can get to the feeling of being one with the Universe, with God, with Source. It is the pure form of combining each others energies so you can barely see a difference within the energy of the aura.
This does not mean that we cannot be one with God, the Universe or Source without intercourse, however, it is the most complete in the physical plane. If we are feeling that we do not want to be sexual, we may want to look at this from the point of view of the Tantra. Tantra is Sacred Love. It is the romance of each others souls, not just the physical manipulations. We reach each other through this ancient art of sharing that which is most sacred, our physical being. A sexuality of being that so far exceeds our own mundane thoughts of sex that we can only derive these benefits through learning the truth behind what we want to experience with our partner; or partners. Yes, Sacred Love does not have to be with just one partner.
Yes, I did say "partners"; as in more than one! That is because we can love more than one person at a time in our present forms. We don't have to have a sexual/spiritual relationship, we can have just a sexual one. However, if we want to have Sacred Love with more than one person, we need to be totally dedicated to that one person at a time during the act of bringing to them, within them the feeling of the Sacredness of your actions. This is only fair to the person you are with and you need to be totally honest with the person before entering Sacred Love, that they are NOT the only one in your life.
Honesty is a must to be able to connect and to give your partner the choice of going through this type of Sexuality with you. Also, because it is based upon a Spiritual/Sexual connection, this would not be considered or even near what we call a one night stand. However, we can be in love with more than one person in different ways, such as in a polyamorous relationship.
I am hoping to promote the idea of having Love, Sexuality and Spirituality be considered in your relationship as One. I do believe in long term Loving relationships, but I do not believe in marriage. Marriage is an outdated ritual that is not necessary in the now. I do believe in Contracts, see my book: "Don't Get Married, Get a Five Year Contract" on www.Amazon.com
Class Schedule: Sexuality and Spirituality, Jan. 13, 2015 at Tanja's Natural Magick Store, 8987 W. Olive Ave., #119, Peoria, AZ, 85345 Call: 602-505-3720 for information and reservations.